Saturday, 14 June 2014

#118: Settle house / financials with Ex

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It's been a big week for me. Job offer on Monday and finalising the house transfer with Ex on Friday. It's really bittersweet. On the one hand, I've very excited to have official closure and have no more financial tie-ups. On the other, it marks it all as final. Done. Over. We no longer own a house together. I am now sole owner.

Frankly, when we split I didn't think I'd be able to come up with the cash to pay the Ex out, and that on top of all the other disruption and emotional turmoil I was going through I was going to be faced with moving out of the house I loved as well. I'm very pleased to have be able to keep my home and come to an agreeable arrangement financially with the Ex.

My bank account may be in intensive care but I'm free and clear now.


  1. Been there done that too. Checked that off my list ;). Now if I could just get a list started....

  2. Oh, i had to be the one out of the house, and also whos paying almost all the debts we got together. It's nice to know tht i learnt. @melilost