tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4021906736495430525.post4457805790706337686..comments2023-11-05T12:43:36.255+00:00Comments on Break Up List: Things to do after a break up: #195: Forgive my Exdays717http://www.blogger.com/profile/15748993641219021748noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4021906736495430525.post-52517499874329405892014-10-31T00:21:50.644+00:002014-10-31T00:21:50.644+00:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4021906736495430525.post-6355961561381175792014-02-19T17:03:27.199+00:002014-02-19T17:03:27.199+00:00I think you are well on your way to finding yourse...I think you are well on your way to finding yourself! It is also important to remember it is an ongoing process. The work never stops. It is just those paradigm shifts, those big steps, the ones that make us go "damn." I worked through a couple of those, in a big way. <br /><br />Anyway, Keep up the good work! I have added you to my newsfeed as I find your blog very uplifting and we all need that.Louis Linsmeyerhttp://www.brokenawake.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4021906736495430525.post-34527394414516956412014-02-17T23:37:32.435+00:002014-02-17T23:37:32.435+00:00Thanks for your comment, Louis. This one was reall...Thanks for your comment, Louis. This one was really hard to do, difficult to write and a embarrassing to share. It's good to know I'm not alone but, likewise, I'm sorry to hear you've gone through a hard time yourself. I believe that few people set out to intentionally hurt their significant other but life, and love, is complicated. Sometimes people have to go down a certain path before they learn that it won't fulfil them and is a dead end for them. In the process those that have been part of that journey get hurt when it ends. It's often hard for both parties, but it's often harder to forgive yourself than someone else. (See my next post). But congratulations on finding yourself. I'd like to say I have too, but I still have a ways to go on that myself!Alinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4021906736495430525.post-22759408952194872382014-02-17T23:00:09.905+00:002014-02-17T23:00:09.905+00:00Thank you for writing this post. I have been on bo...Thank you for writing this post. I have been on both sides of this and most recently I was on the side of harm. Not only did I hurt her, I destroyed myself. That being said, I have spent over a year putting in work like I have never even really considered, although my ex and I talked about it frequently in one form or another. I found myself, my truth. I have slowly healed myself and am learning the power of transparency and living a truly authentic life.<br /><br />I am not in a relationship myself right now, nor am I looking for one but I am happier than I have ever been and believe that if/when the Universe grants me that special partner I will be the mature and open person we need to be within a relationship. I am sad that I hurt both of us so deeply and I wish to the gods I had not. I cannot do anything about that now. <br /><br />Today I can only hope one day she forgives me and she too finds the happiness she deserves more than anyone I know.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16162471650062064033noreply@blogger.com